A brief update

Again, the family appreciates your prayers and thoughts over the past few days.  Needless to say, most family and friends are still in shock over Brian's death.  We all still continue to pray for everyone effected by the events of Friday afternoon, the loss of loved ones and the very presence of such violence. 

In any case, the extended family is tightly knit together and are surrounding Carol and the kids with their presence and help.  The next few days will be dedicated to making arrangements for a memorial service as well as taking care of many details when such a tragedy hits a family. Please continue to pray not only for Carol and her spirit, but for those who surround her and are helping her to move through these next few days of decision making, a situation that no one should ever have to go through.

Hopefully sometime this evening, we will be able to announce details for the memorial services, so please do check back here later.

Comments

[Bettina Stiemer]

Dear Carol,

I am not sure if you remember us from almost 30 years ago - Bettina, Sigi, Maike and Max. Your parents welcomed us into their home, and you and Colleen sometimes babysat for us.
We just heard from your mom about the devastating tragedy that hit you and your family. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and be sure of our thoughts of you and your little ones.
With deepest sympathy,

Bettina and Sigi Stiemer

[shannon day]

i want to extend my most sincere condolences to the family. i am so very sorry for your loss and for your pain. my thoughts are with you.

[Dave, Veda, & Sherri Hall]

So sorry to hear of your loss. You and all
the family and friends have been in our thoughts and prayers all week and shall continue to be.

[Jim and Gerri Wohltmann]

Carol we love you dearly, and our hearts are truly broken by this horrific and senseless tragedy. We cannot even begin to imagine the magnitude of grief you are experiencing in the loss of your wonderful husband, Brian. We pray that God will continue to give you strength as you journey ahead. If you need anything, anything at all, please call us.

[Diane]

Carol,

I was shocked beyond to belief to learn of this tragic event and grieve for the loss of Brian, who was a dear, loving and faithful man. I remember the joy you experienced when you met him, the unique perspective he added to our (your grilfriends) lives, your music-filled wedding celebration, and the overwhelming sense of incredible love you both experienced with the birth of the kids. May God's peace surround you and carry you through this trying time.
In Him,
Diane

[The Struthers Family - Jason, Carry, & Amelia]

We were stunned and immensely saddened to hear of Brian's tragic passing. Carol, you and Brian were such wonderful mentors in the early years of our marriage; we're stronger because of the both of you. Thank you both so much. Your family has our love and prayers in this time.

[Angie A. Swartz]

Carol, You are so incredibly brave. You will be a rock for your family and children. Much Love. Please reach out for whatever you need.
Angie

[The Hall Family - Harriet, Mark, Garrett and Izzy]

Carol, Nicholas, Christia - we love you. You are in our prayers.

[John and Evelyn]

We are so sorry that this tragic event has altered your lives in such a devastating way. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know how we can help you and your family in this difficult time.

[Suzi]

So very sorry for your loss. Our hearts are with your family

[Allie]

so saddened to hear of this tragedy. i sang with brian at foothill in the 90s.

i'd like to share the photos i have of brian to the family if that's possible.

[Chitralekhan]

May Brian's soul rest in peace. May his family have the strength to bear this loss and grief. We pray for you all.